Posted by Tiffany in Daily, Faith, Family | 5 Comments
Best dictionary word of the day: Remission
Six months and twenty days. That’s how long ago I wrote my first CANCER SUCKS blog post. I re-read it this morning. There was an undertone of confidence that this day would come, but definitely fear mixed in with a healthy healthy dose of anger. So many more in my family did much for her throughout the past six months, my sister by her side when there was overwhelming information – translating it for her and for my family, all of the kids by her side at one point or another, my aunt coming from Montana a few times to help her get through some treatments. And the wonderful people of Ansley keeping an eye on her, errr… I mean loving on her! (I know you’re fine Grandma! I know!
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But today is the day people. Today is the day! I logged on and read the most wonderful email, the email we’ve been waiting for (not hoping for, we knew it’d come – just a long journey to get there):
Yes this concerns me and I am so glad to write it. Went to the Dr. Wed. and he says they can’t find any Cancer cells. All my tests came back normal and good. I guess I will be very tired for several months but I can handle that. He said no Dr. can say a person is in remission for two years. So will have to wait that out. Thanks for all the prayers. God does answer them.
Love ya Bonnie
Short. Sweet. To the point. And not a brag in sight of what she did, what she went through, how she fought so strongly. That’s not her style – so I’ll brag for her.
I’ve written about her before, click here to see how awesome she is. So in review – the past 18 months this is a lady who has survived the loss of her lovey of 59 years, six months – went through a major surgery, the outcome of which was a cancer diagnosis, intense chemotherapy, and intense radiation. And do you know what she told my Aunt Kay one time? That when she’s going through radiation (which was everyday), that is when she prayed for her family. All of us. Don’t know about you, but if it were me, my first inclination would be to pray for myself right about that time.
“Classy” does not begin to describe her. “Love” does not begin to describe what we feel. So on this day there is a celebration both in heaven and on earth.
I ask you – if you know her, or if you don’t, what is one thing you love about my Grandma? Has she encouraged you in some way? Has she been there for you at some point in time? If you could give her a word of encouragement, what would it be? Write it down in a comment below – I have a plan for them beyond just the use of my blog.
Love you Grandma. God is so incredibly good, thank you Lord.


Whooooo hoooooo!!!! I’m so glad to hear the news…..glad to hear that you are on the upside of things…..knowing from experience….2 years 5 months away from my surgery — today, August 5th — 2 years since my last chemo…..and I can say….I’m beginning to feel like my “old-self” again….you will continue to “be tired” — and you will still need to listen to your body….and rest when it wants to….not necessarily when you think you want to….congratulations and love you….Susie
Aunt Bonnie-strong, stable, dependable
Hero.
We love you Grandma! You are an amazing woman and I am so privileged to call you family!
I’m so slow in reading things but just had the chance today to “catch up” so I’ll post a short comment because I could write a book on “the best mom EVER”. If you read Proverbs 31 out of my bible, you would, at the end of it, see in my writing these words, “Wow, God…you just described my mom!” She’s the best…my example, my friend, my teacher, my hero…my MOM. I watched you, mom, as you struggled to get up, to eat, to sit & yes, to live. You did it all with such, well, I guess I would have to say, grace! I complained to the doctors for you because you were always hesitant to even complain. At the end of radiation, when it was truly a struggle to even go on, the nurses at the cancer center would say to you, “Even when we know you feel like crap…you always ‘look good’. You keep yourself looking good & that is a huge accomplishment.” Your inner strength, tho’ I know you think you have none, is absolutely amazing! If I, as your daughter, am even a fraction of the Godly woman you are, well…I’ll feel good. Dad would be so proud of you….just as we are! Keep fighting, Keep EATING, and always Keep Loving ’cause that’s one thing I will always need from you! I love you, mom!
Sorry, Tif….way to long, huh!