Posted by Tiffany in Being Mama, Family | 8 Comments
I Feel So Loved!
I truly do! When I wrote the post about Raymonn’s ex-girlfriend I was serious – she looked gorgeous. But I realize I got the man. She got a good man too. I can’t say for sure, but I believe we’re both happy with the roads life has led us down. I know I am. I wouldn’t trade any choice I’ve made ever – look what all of them, both good and bad got me: an amazing family with the best little soon-to-be, heart of gold, beautiful, amazing, independent, funny, race track, can’t sit still for anything little girl and a husband who adores us both!
But I LOVE that my girls have stood up for me and made me feel good about myself. That’s what girlfriends are for. I always feel for those who tell me, “I just make better friends with guys that with girls. I don’t have girlfriends, I’m not good at that.” I used to feel like that was the case for me too – but looking back over my life and the memories I have. Looking back and seeing who is still in my life and who I keep up with, who is REALLY there for me – it’s always been my girlfriends. Those guys who were such great friends? They were cool, they played a role in my life when the time was right – now that we’ve all grown up with spouses and children – they’re gone. It’s okay. They should be, but it’s my girls who are still here. That’s how it should be too.
Thank you for the love and support! I love you gals!
Coming soon… pictures from our big girls weekend! Miss P and I went to spend the weekend in Minnesota with a college roommate and her soon-to-be three year old. It may take just a bit – my computer has currently been confiscated at nights by my fifteen year old niece who is staying with us. I may be able to wrestle it away from her, but I believe this is her lifeline to the outside world or something… 
Visiting from SITS. There really is nothing like a girlfriend who’s stuck by you through thick and thin. Sounds like you’re lucky enough to have more than one of these great friendships. Lucky you!
You are right, you got the guy and his beautiful offspring. Besides that, there’s now way she could be half the woman you are. You are AMAZING!!!
I’m late on this but, seriously, you’re one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever met, inside and out. No one could compete with that.
You are loved. Incredibly loved!
It’s a great feeling to know you are loved. It’s an even greater feeling to know your girls have your back and have stood by you.
What a great attitude to have about the ex-girlfriend. I am not so kind with my husbands!
See i would have to disagree with you about the girlfriends. i dont have really any girl friends. all of them have a tendency to get jealous of me or we don’t have anything in common. i am pretty low maintence. I don’t have the same piorites as other women so its pretty hard to make female friends. My husband and guy friends are there for me when i ever i need them. i wish i had female friends it just never works out.
Erin- I’m not sure where you live, but you should come hang out in Nebraska. What I love about my girls is that we come in all shapes and sizes and maintenance levels
I have one who wouldn’t dare come out of her house without her makeup and hair done. I have another who told me the only piece of makeup she owns is moisturizer and it’s a generic moisturizer to top it off! I love the diversity (both racial and life diversity).
Come hang out with us – we’d have a blast!